secretive husband

P:
Oooo, okay, tell me why I feel my husband is hiding something from me! (I think it's because I'm insecure and crazy, but who knows.  Hook me up! Just don't tell me I'm going to die or anything icky like that :)

To answer the question "What's going on with J being secretive?" I pulled three cards:

IX Swords - the answer
X Swords - why that is
King Swords - the outcome
The suit of swords represents problems in life and pulling three of them made me sit up and take notice. According to the cards, P is feeling sorry for himself; he has been through something that wasn't pleasant and has just ended or is about to. He needs to be approachable but it's hard because he's defensive.
To me these cards don't suggest another woman, just a situation P is not happy about.

Does this make sense to you?
(It doesn't to me, from the way you write about J, but those are the cards.)

Kate

Kate, as you know I don't really believe in the occult or fortune-telling or whatever, but huh. That's pretty accurate. J, who like most men ties up a lot of his identity with his job, is going through turmoil in his workplace. He was just one of only 3 people to be chosen to stay with his employer company while the rest of his group is being outsourced to another company and basically are going to get canned. His long-time boss is one of the people who is being sent off to the other company and although J has always had conflicts with him and feels meanly triumphant that he "won," he can't help but feel sorry for the guy, who is doing pitiful things like calling all the VPs to try to change their minds and they won't take his calls.  Anyway, the guy keeps calling him and crying and wanting sympathy and J doesn't deal well with emotional things like that, especially in a work setting. So there you go.
 
And I didn't say "Why is he being secretive?" I said "Why do I feel like he's hiding something?" so if I had to answer the question with reference to your cards, I'd say he's hiding that he doesn't feel 100% relieved that he's retained his job because he doesn't know what it's going to mean and hasn't gotten any direction on where it's going to take him. But he feels like he should be happy because hey! He's got a job and all his coworkers don't!
 
Tarot cards make people examine their feelings, don't they? Interesting.  Love it!
 
Thanks for doing this for me! xoxo K

K,
It's not unusual with the cards that they'll make no sense at all to me, but perfect sense to the person they're being read for. The bloody things blow me away with their accuracy, I tell you. Half the battle in reading them is getting myself out of the way ("Huh? This can't  be right!") and just passing on what the cards seem to be showing. Easier said than done.